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Facing pregnancy loss is one of those moments of life that remind you that you are here on this earth alone. A deep knowing that grieving, and healing isn't something that anyone else can do for you.
I don't mean that it doesn't affect the partner who was not pregnant, or that you have to heal feeling lonely and without support.
It is a moment that changes your being and body. Having a profound effect on the mother physiologically, emotionally, and in her soul.
The journey to healing is one that you walk alone. It is your inner being and connection with body that needs nourishment and presence. It takes time. And no one else can do it for you.
This is also one of those moments in life that show you how much we need community, sisterhood, a tribe. A support system that can hold space for you, and provide the safety needed to be able to go inward. To those spaces inside that feel the depth of grief that is there. The loss that comes with desperation, shame, guilt, anger. To go into the painful dark within and be with it.
This takes a tribe.
Whether you have faced pregnancy loss through choice or not. The loss is there. And it is something to honour and respect. The body needs to release that energy; birth that energy on the journey towards healing. So that it does not stagnate, being carried around for years festering inside and manifesting in other ways.
I wish we lived in a world where this journey was held carefully. That through ritual we could meet our symbolic needs that carry us through our pain. That give space for it and honour it. Not rejecting, diminishing, attempting to push transformation.
We could call our sisters out to be with us in those first hours. To carry the space that we need to be able to walk alone into embodiment. To ground us with food, listen to our wail, nourish us with touch, close the door to give privacy, inviting us to move and undulate the body, to prepare the space to let us be in our own ritual, and allows us be alone without adding guilt for needing it. Sacred space to start the journey.
A moment where togetherness and aloneness meet. An mysterious alchemy that has profound impact on our being.
In this episode I share a message towards 2 mothers that I had in my heart who are walking this path. And I share the words that flowed through me about my own experience, where I had beautiful space held by a friend while I birthed the remaining energies that I had carried within for a year. I chose the moment to birth the energy, asked for the space, and dove into it.
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Juel
PS. You can dive into ways to reunite with your essence, pleasure & body with me here.
Juel helps women and non-binary queens re-connect with their inner source of power to create authentic and passionate lives. Creating transformational journeys back to essence.
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